Tbf, this is more satisfying than someone trying to be nice forcefully and you know they are not honest. As a person with anxiety and general social issues, I would rather feel safe when someone says something like this to me rather than they are trying to say how it doesn’t matter, because it DOES matter and it really gives a REAL issues to me, so saying “it’s not a big deal” is backlashing, because you actually disregard person’s suffering that way. But if you RELATE with that person, this feels like someone trying to genuinely understand you. Kalgkur did a great job here.
Kalgkur used ‘Commiserate’! It was SSS-rank effective!
Tbf, this is more satisfying than someone trying to be nice forcefully and you know they are not honest. As a person with anxiety and general social issues, I would rather feel safe when someone says something like this to me rather than they are trying to say how it doesn’t matter, because it DOES matter and it really gives a REAL issues to me, so saying “it’s not a big deal” is backlashing, because you actually disregard person’s suffering that way. But if you RELATE with that person, this feels like someone trying to genuinely understand you. Kalgkur did a great job here.
One thought deeply to bring up this topic.
The other was just happy to vent.
They are not the same.